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Sharing is Caring: Compersion in Life & Work

Just as I can’t pick a favorite food, color or book: I cannot pick a favorite person. Each one of my relationships provides a unique contribution to my well-being because each one nourishes me in a unique way. I can’t merely take more Vitamin-C if I’m deficient in Vitamin-D; I need both in their proper […]

Introductions can be Awkward

Introductions as a poly whore can be awkward. There isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach to telling a stranger that your whole life revolves around sex within the first 10 minutes of meeting them, but as I move through the world, bumping into new people, it’s something that I do quite often. A would-be fairy tale meeting […]

“Have you ever hoped that brilliant teaching assistant also had a porcelain body and a secret closet of nasty toys? That’s one fantasy Ivy crossed off my list.”

— A, New York