Generosity is a quality I both appreciate and admire in my suitors.
If I were to rank the love languages in order of importance to me, gifts are second only to spending quality time together. Those who go above and beyond to make me feel adored reap the benefits of my gratitude. “When you’re good to Mama, Mama’s good to you.”
Sweet little gifts all wrapped up with string, these are a few of my favorite things!
Hot or cold: coffee and chai tea are my guilty pleasures. I also love fresh-pressed juices and Martinelli’s sparkling apple cider for the occasions that deserve bubbles. I don’t drink alcohol.
Fresh berries. Sea-salted chocolates. Fudge. Cinnamon Buns.
Sunflowers. Roses. Dahlias. Hydrangeas. The romance of sending flowers is not lost on me and Social Flowers allows you to send me a bouquet using just my email!
My preferred strain is a Sativa-dominant hybrid. I prefer flower over edibles but if you have something extra tasty, I’m happy to let you try and change my mind.
Maria Tash and BVLA have some of my favorite custom body jewelry. I’m currently rockin’ rose gold, black diamonds and opals. I also have a sweet spot for getting a blue box from Tiffany & Co. because, according to Holly Golightly, “Nothing very bad could happen to you there.”
I love adding new treasures to my library but I get particularly giddy when I receive: new poetry, anything by Margaret Atwood, sci-fi written by female authors, cool biographies and books about investment & wealth management.
When You Want to Surprise Me
A gift, or a gift card, from one of my favorite shops is a quick way straight to my heart. If you would like to pick up something for me to wear for you during our special night out, the measurements in my sizing guide should make sure I’ll look wonderful in it.
Outfits & Intimacies
- Salua Lingerie
- Honey Birdette
- Cornelia James
- Rag and Bone
Other Shops I Adore
- Mud Bay
- West Elm
- Restoration Hardware
- Whole Foods
- Ravenna Gardens
Looking for some inspiration or just a straight-up cheat-sheet? My wish-list lets you see exactly what I’ve been lusting over.
The Gifts That Keep On Giving
Philanthropy is Sexy
I feel lucky to be living this charmed life. If you really want to impress me, there are a few organizations who I stand behind wholeheartedly that could always benefit from your donation.
This amazing organization works specifically with sex workers who’ve been arrested. Providing currently incarcerated sex workers with books, study materials and pen pals, as well as helping recently released sex workers meet their basic needs and providing them resources for successful re-entry into their communities.
An absolutely vital resource, Planned Parenthood provides affordable health services and sexual education to millions of people worldwide.I personally relied on their services when I was coming of age and am eternally grateful for the care I received.
Ivy’s Sizing Guide
|Shoes||7 US or 39 EU|